FOF #712 - Your Gay Doctor - 02.26.08
By Fausto Fernós on February 26, 2008 | Share & Save | Link | Print |
Gay men are living longer than ever and we need to make sure we continue to keep the healthy bodies we’ve enjoyed in our younger years.
After all, life doesn’t end at forty.
On today’s show we’re talking to Dr. Frank Spinelli, your gay doctor about his brand new book “The Advocate Guide to Gay Men’s Health and Wellness.”
Dr. Frank joins us to talk about why some gay men abuse drugs, transmit sexual diseases and how to keep romance hot well into your golden years.
Dr. Frank says one of the most important things you can do with your doctor is to come out as a gay man. Simply say “Doctor, I’m gay.” But for many of us, we shy away from doing that because we fear being judged or worse, being looked at as a freak because we don’t necessarily share the same sexual orientation as our doctor.
Thankfully, Dr. Frank is gay and fabulous! You can check out his MySpace page here.
Listen up folks, this podcast just might save your life!
The Advocate Guide to Gay Men’s Health and Wellness is a fabulous book that covers all the questions you may want to ask your doctor. It makes a great beside or bathroom book.
I believe that the single most important thing to improve the sexual health of all people in America is for the next President to push in congress a Universal Health Care plan for all people. The reality is that too many people living in the U.S. wait to the last minute to see a doctor because they simply cannot afford it.
I can only imagine the lives that would be saved and the improvement in transmission rates of all sexually transmitted diseases if we all had the same access to health care that almost all western nations enjoy.
For many of Americans, access to adequate health care is sketchy at best and I urge you to get Dr. Frank’s book (it’s $22 on Amazon) to educate yourself about the perils we face as gay men and also about some of the rewards and pleasures we’ve worked so hard to enjoy.
That being said, I urge you to save up and go see a doctor. There are many clinics in most urban areas that offer services on a sliding scale.
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Mark Henning says:
February 26, 2008 at 10:35Dr. Spinelli can rest asured that his salt-and-pepper hair is extremely sexy! I’ve always liked that look.
Gary T says:
February 26, 2008 at 10:53“Love Song” is by Sara Bareilles.
I think The Dr. and Anderson Cooper would make a hot couple, and they are both in NYC. Love the salt & pepper!!!
Boston Bill says:
February 26, 2008 at 11:08Great informative show!! I can never have a male Dr. Tried it and was way to HARD!!!!!!
Literally!!!
frankspinellimd says:
February 26, 2008 at 13:41Thanks Feast of Fools for having me on your show. It was so nice of you to let me talk about the Advocate Guide to Gay Men’s Health and Wellness. We need more shows like yours and even more gay health books to keep us informed. Knowledge is power. Thank you to all the listeners for their comments. Here’s to good sex and a healthy future….love Dr. Frank
Superboy says:
February 26, 2008 at 14:59Those eyes… sigh. Love you Dr. Frank! You guys had such great chemistry today.
Went to Amazon and got the book.
Fructose Cornsyrup says:
February 26, 2008 at 16:29Wow, great show! Dr. Frank sounds like he’d be really easy to talk to. Wish he was in San Antonio!
Henry says:
February 26, 2008 at 18:55Hmmm, Why do i have the image of a huge singing plant screaming “Feed Me Seymore, Feed Me.”?
Great show today! Dr. Frank was a delightful guest. Fun and informative, you did it once again!
Thank you for making my day more entertaining and getting it started off in the right direction.
nst101 says:
February 26, 2008 at 19:52Hey guys, thanks for helping me have a great afternoon! I just got an iPod touch over the weekend because my old iPod nano died. On the touch, when you play podcasts, the picture associated with the podcast is shown, so I got to see Dr. Frank’s cute picture all afternoon as well as hearing you all.
I also wanted to thank Dr. Frank for the great show and book. When I moved to Des Moines (IA) a few months ago, I looked for a gay or gay friendly doctor, but unfortunately, there were none that I could find on the internet (yeah, Iowa sucks). I would really like to come out to my doctor, but don’t really know how… I’d like to get tested for everything even though I’ve only been with one guy (my current partner) and we’ve been together for five years. Any tips on how to bring up the topic?
Again, thanks guys and Dr. Frank! Look forward to another great show.
DC_gay_man says:
February 26, 2008 at 21:56Fausto: “What happens after we die?”
Frank Spinelli, MD: “I fill out your death certificate.” (in my dreams!)
Given the pace of medical advances, it would be awesome to have a standing dialogue with the “doctor in the house” perhaps on an annual or semi-annual basis. God only knows the change that could be created.
Also, for those in search of a gay physician through a quick search engine, I want to plug the gay and lesbian medical association which is an awesome resource: http://www.glma.org/
xChickengirlx says:
February 27, 2008 at 00:05all i can say is i wish Dr. Spinelli was my doctor… o_o oooh that’s a fine man right there.
good show! very informative.
Fausto Fernós says:
February 27, 2008 at 02:50I thought Dr. Frank had such an attractive voice, didn’t you guys think so?
water-based says:
February 27, 2008 at 03:22Great show. Well thought out questions and a great interview. You guys hit gold every time. I’m definitely buying the book. Kudos to the Dr, as well. He makes me wish I lived in New York.
RcktMan says:
February 27, 2008 at 03:38Fausto I was JUST about to comment that as gorgeous as Dr. Frank is physically, I was so entranced by his VOICE! Sexy sexy SEXY!
And he has the most adorable laugh! Sigh. I’m glad and sad he’s not my doctor… glad cuz I’m not sure I’d be able to control myself…
and sad because, well, he’s not.
Scuse me, I need to look at his picture and listen to the show… again… sigh.
RcktMan says:
February 27, 2008 at 03:42OK now for the comment with substance–
Once again, thank you for providing topics about sexuality and health that don’t preach, but do lay it on the line in a very REAL format. Frank talk like this is sadly and sorely missing in today’s culture, and it’s important to continue to have these dialogues. Guests like Dr. Frank and Jim Pickett have elevated the Feast of Fools above being “just” a comedy show, but also a show that really and truly cares about its audience. Thank you for that.
SAL-E says:
February 27, 2008 at 04:12Oh my gosh, I know who I want for a Doctor now!
I am ready to bend over, cough, what ever!
Love ya
-SAL-E
MoocherX says:
February 27, 2008 at 08:13*melts* *melts again* *imagines Doc saying “just relax, you’ll only feel a little prick”*
Had to laugh at the comment about being the gay Sanjay Gupta, following a few things I’ve heard about the CNN hottie
Very intrigued by Rick’s post (first post)… but won’t pursue it. Sometimes it’s horses for courses.
Jake Snow says:
February 27, 2008 at 08:33Thanks FOF for looking out for our health! GREAT show, perfect balance of the serious and the humor. Love you guys. Oh and Dr. Frank, you are very handsome. You’re a very big turn on. I don’t understand how you are single. Please be back on the show again so we can hear more of your sexy voice!
Cliff Dix says:
February 27, 2008 at 11:31Thank you Dr. Frank.
I will definitely buy the book. I think society has become so uptight when it comes to sex let alone gay sex that we are doing all our citizens a disservice. We need more frank sex talk to empower us.
Terrific show guys.
Lieber47 says:
February 27, 2008 at 14:10HE can’t get a date? I find that hard to believe. Unless he has some huge hidden flaw somewhere we can’t see…
Benjamin says:
February 27, 2008 at 14:51I got in trouble when Mark said “Jaundice Jamboree.” I was in my local italian sandwich shop, and started laughing. The cute Grandma behind the counter thought I was laughing at her.
Rhea says:
February 27, 2008 at 15:27@MoocherX:
So that means the Gay Sanjay Gupta is actually the gay Sanjay Gupta? ![]()
StevenvanL. says:
February 27, 2008 at 16:07When I get my free regular check-up at the std clinic I notice that there tend to be a lot of hot guys around. Is this because hot guys get more sex and therefore pick up more trouble? Or are hot guys too stupid to prevent themselves from catching something? In any case, it is akward to find yourself cruising a guy, then catch yourself and realise he might very well be there for something contagious…
Now where do I sign up for the ‘Dr. Frank is oh-so-dreamy’ fanclub?
Marc Felion says:
February 27, 2008 at 19:31Benjamin the “Jaundice Jamboree.” was a the last line in a whole slew of crazy circuit party names listed in one of the live shows. It was something like “black and blue balls, Gangrene balls, Polka Dot Balls and the Jaundice Jamboree- that’s not too popular that last one.”
Its the show we found Amanda for!
here’s some pics
http://fausto.org/photos/photos-fireremix-oct2004/
NotAnAngel79 says:
March 1, 2008 at 13:37Oh My Gah!
I totally picked the right podcast to pick back up on. Dr. Spinelli, damn…u r just hot! I’d love for him to talk to me all day about my health. I would make sure he had all the romance he needed…lol. Anyways, I loved the show and I am so sorry that life drug me away from commenting on here!
Polo Drew says:
March 1, 2008 at 14:24Doctor it hurts down there, I think I pulled a muscle watching the show
Great shows guys. Dr. Spinelli is such a hotie, oh why can’t I ever get a doc like him. Seriously tho, Dr. Spinelli had some great advice on the show. Thanks for mixing up the humor with the serious things we need to know to stay healthy and live proud, fierce lives. I’m going to run over to Amazon (using the site link of course) and buy his book.
FoF is my prescription for what ails you.
Drew
Bracer Jack says:
March 1, 2008 at 14:38“The most important thing is to “come out” to your Doctor” - Really makes me think a lot.
I love the sound of your laughter, so assuring, please come back on the show someday Frank.
Fishsauce says:
March 1, 2008 at 19:09Thank you for this very informative show. If only we could all have an intelligent, caring and understanding doctor like Dr. Frank.
Nathan says:
March 1, 2008 at 21:52Now this was a fantastic show!
… Dr. Spinelli is a fox! Rarr!
Dr. Ruth was pretty impactful for me, too.. Remember that Quantum Leap when Sam was Dr. Ruth… fabulous!
Bring Dr. Spinelli to talk about growing old gracefully… THAT would be a show to tune into.
When I lived in LA, finding a good gay-friendly doctor was a pain in the ass. I ended up with a doctor, who was able to see my quickly, take care of things during a scandal (I thankfully to never be diagnosed with anything), but was always scared to talk about sexual health.
Can he be a regular.. like once a month, focusing on gay men’s health issues?! Fabulous and sexy! Bring it!
photolover says:
March 2, 2008 at 15:21Hey I loved the show! I am a medical student and it was especially great for me…I took notes on how to be a “gay doctor.” Dr. Spinelli is great and handsome I would love to be his intern. He can be my consultant any day!
But seriously these are very important issues that ought to be talked about so thanks Dr. S!
PureeTofu says:
March 4, 2008 at 10:51I must say this was an awesome episode.
I\’m very pro being VERY open with your doctor.
Unfortunately my teenage to two years ago doctor passed away but we had a great relationship. Dr. Jackson was very frank and would tell me the best and least expensive way to get help, ie. HIV tests through him cost $50, Health Dept. Free!
I personally feel most comfortable with a younger female doctor, though I don\’t think there are many gay doctors floating around Raleigh.
Also, on the note for plastic surgery, hair dye, etc. Frank, don\’t touch a thing, dear lord, I\’m 25 and wish I looked as good as you do at 40!
PureeTofu says:
March 4, 2008 at 11:07I\’ve not had the fiber cookies but I eat Fiber One bars as a snack through the day. Tastie and good for you!
As for the breakdown:
Song name - \”Love Song\” by Sara Sara Bareilles
I :heart: shorter guys,
Curtis says:
March 4, 2008 at 19:34Really great episode. Engaging and well spoken. Invite him back.
I found having a Doctor that knew I was Gay to be a major transformative experience in my health care. Having a Doctor who understood the implications was critical too.
Mel and Shaun in Oz says:
March 17, 2008 at 03:10Hey Fausto and Marc,
Thank you so much for such an entertaining, interesting and informative interview. This was quite an enjoyable show. I will definitely get a copy of Dr Spinelli\’s book for my boy, Shaun and will also recommend it to a friend of mine that runs a book store. I think he should carry it in his store.
We really do need more helpful gay friendly books like this that can help us take care of ourselves and not be judgemental at the same time.
Dr Spinelli is just lovely. Intelligent and interesting man and not to mention down right STUNNING!!!
Once again, you guys have enlightened us. Thank you so very much.
Love
Mel in Oz
frankspinellimd says:
March 17, 2008 at 07:00I miss you guys already. So invite me back soon. Even better I will be in San Francisco at a Different Light March 22nd at 3pm and then LA, April 18th at 7pm. See you there and please send in your questions. Gay Health evolves from the discussions of questions brought up by you and your amazing listeners. All the best Dr. Frank
Dwight Benignus says:
May 17, 2008 at 21:48Hmm, do we really need doctors specifically for gay men’s health? I mean, I worry about AIDS and such, but you’d figure a proctologist wouldn’t worry too much one way or another.
Marc Felion says:
May 18, 2008 at 12:58Well, maybe not specicially but does a straight man really have concerns about anal sex?
And yes, there is homophobia in the doctor community so its nice to be able to go to a doctor that understands your concerns.
Here’s a nice blog you can visit that talks specifically about gay men’s health concerns http://www.lifelube.blogspot.com
gay traveler says:
July 14, 2008 at 21:06a very good initiative.. i think there is a great demand for it
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Rick says:
February 26, 2008 at 08:41Dr. Spinelli was my partner’s doctor for a short period of time in 2006. I was introduced to him briefly at the clinic he was working at. Let’s just say that my partner changed doctors and is much happier now.